A girl’s physical needs are fulfilled through sexual intercourse.
A pleasurable orgasm fulfills femininity and helps release chemicals in the brain that make a woman feel fulfilled.
When I was in college, I used to read new film articles on the internet, and I understood that men and women have physical needs.
Man is needed to fulfill woman’s needs, and man is needed to fulfill woman’s needs.
On the other hand, our parents were against this, they said that all this was wrong before marriage, I did not understand why this was so and I myself thought that all these were unnecessary things.
Became my boyfriend, and I expressed my consent
that i want to enjoy sex
He was also ready, we both go and experience it
It was a magical feeling. A kind of energy started coming into my body. Now I felt that this physical need must be fulfilled.
But after some time I broke up,
And I started having a relationship with another boy.
but we couldn’t get married
And now the age of marriage had come, so mother and father found a good boy and married him.
The sex was good for the first few days
But I don’t know why my mind started moving away from this thing.
I would make excuses when my husband initiated sex.
Our relationships started turning sour,
I called the doctor and told him my problem.
He said this happens with age,
And took medicine for a whole year
Here my husband also started getting upset with me.
I know men want sex
But I couldn’t do anything even if I wanted to.
We did not have children nor did we have much physical relationship.
He told me that despite being a wife, my physical needs are not being fulfilled, now there is no point in us living together.
This thing hurt me deeply
I said give it some time
And this time after everything, I came to Rishikesh
In the hope that my mental condition is not good due to which all this is happening.
There I met my Guru Maa who taught me meditation and yoga.
he discussed my things with me
So I told them this is my problem
In a moment she said, how many men have you slept with before marriage?
I was surprised but I gave them the correct answer.
He said that our body is made up of memories. When a woman gets married to a man, the memory of that man resides in every part of her body.
And because of this, mutual love and lust gradually develops between the two.
But when you do the same thing with 2-3 men, your body is not able to understand whom to keep in your memories and whom to throw away.
And you feel disinterested in sex and gradually love starts to fade away.
Then I understood why elders advise to have sex only after marriage.
so that our relationships become stronger
But today, like me, many girls have sex before marriage without any ill effects.
And even though they don’t want to, their married life gets ruined.
Apart from this, there are also such girls who open their breasts in front of anyone just to get their work done or to maintain their status.
But this is wrong, I realized this when the relationship between my husband and me started getting sour.
Under any circumstances, having sex before marriage is wrong.
you will have fun today
But you will only regret after marriage
And you will wonder why I did this..